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In this video I will be talking about some of the most common personality traits of people who like to be alone… and yes, they are all positive!
So get comfy cozy, open your heart, open your mind and let’s get into it!
1. They’re Extremely Loyal
They don’t very often have a wide social circle and if they do, you won’t find them out every night of the week with large groups, lining up for the hottest club opening. They instead seek out meaningful and trustworthy friends who they feel comfortable to welcome into their space and share details of their life with. If you have a friend who likes to spend time alone, you can guarantee that this person will be there for you through thick and thin.
2. They’re Open to New Ideas
Just because they cherish their quiet time doesn’t mean they won’t do something new and exciting. They just make sure to have their quiet time before taking the plunge into a highly social activity.
3. They Have a Level Head
They spend so much quiet time on their own, taking the time to navigate and contemplate situations, problems, and to really tap into who they are and what they want. They have a strong sense of self and a confidence that radiates from within. When they’re feeling stressed or the weight of the world is closing in? They spend time alone to recharge instead of filling their day with distractions.
4. They Are Comfortable With Their Own Thoughts
I’m sure we’ve all come across that person who can’t stand to be alone with their own thoughts. People who like to spend time alone, particularly in the quiet, display a clear conscience and do not struggle with their inner thoughts. Of course, we can all have down days but they tend to be able to navigate themselves out of any slump.
5. They Understand The Value of Time. Yours and Theirs
You’ll notice a word that keeps coming up in each point. The word is ‘time’. People who spend time alone understand and appreciate its value. They put a high priority on making that time available in order for them to function at their highest level and best self; so, when you are giving of your time they understand what you’ve given up for them. They have a deep sense of making sure not to waste your time or to spend time with people who are wasting theirs.
6. They Exercise Strong Boundaries
All of that time alone gives these people the space to think about what motivates them, what works and what doesn’t, and how to properly communicate this. You’ll find that they have strong and healthy boundaries and they exercise their right to communicate these in a really healthy and clear manner.
Wanting to be alone does not necessarily have to mean anything negative. We all have our ways of walking through life and whatever you find is best for you, well, keep on doing it!
Remember to be kind to yourself, give yourself grace and always always love yourself.
Thank you for spending this time with me!